My mom, Ruth McVay Trenn and what I got from her

Sometimes it doesn't matter whether or not there are no words to explain how important someone is to you.  Sometimes explanations can't tell the whole story.  Sometimes you just have to explain anyway. Today marks the 13th anniversary of my mother's death.  She died suddenly one day, without much warning, of what was likely a … Continue reading My mom, Ruth McVay Trenn and what I got from her

Henry Louis Gates Jr. and what’s really wrong with this picture

When I read about Harvard Professor Henry Louis Gates, Jr. getting arrested at his home in Cambridge, MA, I cringed. As the story unfolded, it became clear to me how easily this can happen.  Simply misunderstandings, a cop doing his job, and racial profiling all worked together produced yet another incident that we all could, … Continue reading Henry Louis Gates Jr. and what’s really wrong with this picture